together we can change ourself

together we can change ourself

The Buddha even gives some advice regarding one’s finances:

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1. One quarter of your earnings should be used to cover your expenses. 2. Two quarters should be re-invested in your business. 3. One quarter should be put into savings for times of need.
Finally, the Buddha discusses how one might best benefit from worshipping the six directions.
Regarding the east, a child should be good to his or her parents: support them, help them, keep their traditions, be worthy of your inheritance, and offer alms in their honor when they die.
A parent should be good to his or her children as well: keep them from getting into trouble, encourage them to be good, train them for a profession, make sure they are suitably married, and provide a good inheritance.
Regarding the south, a student should be good to his or her teachers: show respect, work hard, and be eager to learn.
A teacher should be good to his or her students: teach them well, make sure they understand, help them achieve their goals.
Regarding the west, a husband should be good to his wife: treat her well, be faithful to her, share authority with her, and give her jewelry 😉
A wife should be good to her husband: be gracious, faithful, industrious, and frugal.
Regarding the north, a friend should be good to his or her friends: be generous, helpful, loyal, protective, and so on.
Regarding the nadir (“down”), an employer should be good to his or her employees: assign work according to their abilities, provide food and wages, take care of them when they are sick, share delicacies with them, and grant them occasional leave.
Employees should be good to their employers: Get to work early, leave late, perform their duties well, don’t pilfer from the supply closet, and uphold their employer’s good name.
And finally, regarding the zenith (“up”), lay people should be good to people who have devoted themselves to the spiritual life: kind deeds, kind words, kind thoughts, opening one’s home to them, and supplying them with their physical needs.
And people in the spiritual life should be good to lay people: keep them from doing evil, encourage them to do good, make sure they hear the dharma, clarify what they don’t understand, point out the way, and generally love them.
Keep these relationships in mind, he tells Sigalovada, and the ritual your father asked you to keep will have greater benefits than he ever dreamed of. Although some of the details may be a bit dated — it has been some 2500 years, after all — it can still serve quite well as a guide to moral behavior for the common man or woman of today!
Buddha concludes with a poem:
Who is wise and virtuous, Gentle and keen-witted, Humble and amenable, Such a one to honor may attain.
Who is energetic and not indolent, In misfortune unshaken, Flawless in manner and intelligent, Such a one to honor may attain.
Who is hospitable and friendly, Liberal and unselfish, A guide, an instructor, a leader, Such a one to honor may attain.
Generosity, sweet speech, Helpfulness to others, Impartiality to all, As the case demands.
These four winning ways make the world go round, As the linchpin in a moving car. If these in the world exist not, Neither mother nor father will receive, Respect and honor from their children.
From The Sigalovada Sutta, DN31, translated by Narada Thera (

Written by Bhushan Kulkarni

May 23, 2007 at 11:31 am

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